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| 愿平安。 |
Thursday, January 30, 2014
Monday, January 27, 2014
Friday, January 24, 2014
Being in a relationship
... or having a child marks the beginning of the journey of unconditional love. metta.
Monday, January 20, 2014
SOmetiMeS
and most of the time, we forget how good we are or how good we can be.
Sometimes and most of the time, we tend to remember bitter experience better than cherish sweet moments in life.
This is how most mind work.
Sometimes and most of the time, we tend to remember bitter experience better than cherish sweet moments in life.
This is how most mind work.
Friday, January 17, 2014
Wednesday, January 15, 2014
Wisdom tooth extraction
Heard many bad experiences of colleagues and friends about it.
I applied for a week leave but my kind supervisor has given me two weeks off. He thinks I need more than one week to heal >,<
Fear then built up when the date got closer.
And I started to find excuses in trying to postpone the surgery.
Can I drive after that? Who is going to drive me to the drug store to get the pain killer? Experiments are still running.. I really need to get my thesis done. The tooth has not given me any trouble so far why do I need to find trouble?? I am staying alone now, no one is going to cook for me after that. By then, I started to understand why some elderly refuse to do the annual medical check-up. It's because of fear, fear of unknown. Really torturing me.
Fear disappeared when I decided to trust the dentist. He is professional. When he advised to get it done, it needed to be done.
Fear vanished when I realized physical pain is more bearable than mental pain (fear of unknown).
Got to remember this experience.
I applied for a week leave but my kind supervisor has given me two weeks off. He thinks I need more than one week to heal >,<
Fear then built up when the date got closer.
And I started to find excuses in trying to postpone the surgery.
Can I drive after that? Who is going to drive me to the drug store to get the pain killer? Experiments are still running.. I really need to get my thesis done. The tooth has not given me any trouble so far why do I need to find trouble?? I am staying alone now, no one is going to cook for me after that. By then, I started to understand why some elderly refuse to do the annual medical check-up. It's because of fear, fear of unknown. Really torturing me.
Fear disappeared when I decided to trust the dentist. He is professional. When he advised to get it done, it needed to be done.
Fear vanished when I realized physical pain is more bearable than mental pain (fear of unknown).
Got to remember this experience.
Friday, January 10, 2014
Monday, January 6, 2014
sO TrUe
‘It doesn’t take much to be in love. But it takes a lot to be in a relationship.’ – Anonymous
Sunday, January 5, 2014
Saturday, January 4, 2014
Friday, January 3, 2014
New Year Resolution
Friends have been asking me, "why must we make new year resolution? I won't do that just because everyone is doing it." A typical cool, generation Y's response towards social norms.
I pondered upon this question for awhile.
Then, I have my answers.
Because we are careless/ unmindful and we forget things.
Because we get carried away so easily by day to day mundane life until we miss the big picture, the purpose of life and what really make us happy.
New Year would be a good life's checkpoint for us to reflect, to learn, to thank and to change.
Happy New Year.
I pondered upon this question for awhile.
Then, I have my answers.
Because we are careless/ unmindful and we forget things.
Because we get carried away so easily by day to day mundane life until we miss the big picture, the purpose of life and what really make us happy.
New Year would be a good life's checkpoint for us to reflect, to learn, to thank and to change.
Happy New Year.
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